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		<title>You Are Not Your Thoughts</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Andre Zonta]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2026 21:21:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You Are Not Your Thoughts”: How CBT Helps You Break Free from Unhelpful Thinking]]></description>
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			<p>We cannot stop thinking — and we’re not supposed to. Our minds are constantly generating thoughts, ideas, judgments, assumptions. It’s just what they do. But the key isn’t to silence our thoughts. The key is to become more aware of them, so we can begin to notice which ones are helping us move forward… and which ones might be holding us back.<br />
Many of us go through life believing every thought that pops into our minds. But the truth is, thoughts are not facts. Some are helpful, some are neutral, and some are harsh, distorted, or completely untrue — especially the ones that keep telling you you’re not good enough, that you’ll fail, or that things won’t ever get better.<br />
These kinds of thoughts, when repeated often enough, can start to shape the way we see ourselves and the world. Over time, they can reinforce deep, negative core beliefs, like “I’m not lovable,” or “I’m a failure.” When this happens, it’s easy to feel stuck, anxious, or low — even if there’s no clear reason why.</p>
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			<h2>How CBT Helps</h2>
<p>Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) gives you tools to identify unhelpful thoughts, question their accuracy, and gently shift them. It’s not about “positive thinking” — it’s about realistic thinking. CBT teaches you to recognize patterns that may be keeping you stuck and offers practical ways to challenge and change them.</p>
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			<p>Understanding your thinking patterns is key to changing how you feel and how you act. When you become more aware of the thoughts that influence your emotions and behaviour, you gain the power to respond more intentionally — rather than just react.</p>
<h2>Try the 3 C’s: Catch, Check, Change</h2>
<p>⦁ Catch It – Notice the thought. Maybe it’s something like, “I always ruin everything.”<br />
⦁ Check It – How accurate and useful is it. Ask:<br />
⦁ Is this 100% true?<br />
⦁ What’s the evidence for and against this?<br />
⦁ Am I seeing things in black-and-white?<br />
⦁ Change It – Reframe the thought into something more balanced:<br />
⦁ “I’ve made mistakes before, but I’ve also handled a lot of things well. One moment/mistake doesn’t define me.”</p>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;">CBT teaches you to recognize patterns that may be keeping you stuck and offers practical ways to challenge and change them.</h1>
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			<p>By practicing this regularly, you begin to shift your relationship with your thoughts. You become less reactive, more reflective, and more in control of how you respond to challenges — both internally and in the real world.</p>
<h2>You Don’t Have to Do This Alone</h2>
<p>If you find yourself stuck in a loop of negative thinking, CBT can help. Together, we can explore the thought patterns that have been holding you back and build new, healthier ways of thinking — step by step.<br />
Reach out to schedule a consultation and learn how CBT can support you.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fernanda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2023 14:53:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Routine and anxiety]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Is ok if you feel better having a routine, but accept that it is healthy to take a break and rest as well.]]></description>
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			<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Anxiety when out of routine</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For most of us it is lovely to have a break and a long weekend bank holiday is amazing. Although unfortunately, not everyone can truly enjoy it. Some people can really struggle if they break routine, it can significantly increase anxiety. For them, a lack of structure and routine can exacerbate feelings of distress and they tend to pay more attention to the source of their problems.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Not having a schedule can really be more anxiety provoking for those people and could be quite overwhelming. It is not unusual for clients to contact me at weekends, mostly Sundays, that could be due to the boredom of Sunday, lack of their weekday schedule or could also be the anxiety of pre-Monday, overthinking all the things they may have to do.</span></p>
<p><strong>Research has consistently shown that routines can play an important role in mental health, finding that routines can help people better manage stress and anxiety. There are certainly great benefits of having a routine, that can help you with:</strong></p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: 400;">Lowering stress levels</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Forming good daily habits</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Taking better care of your health (physical and mental health)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Feeling more productive</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Feeling more focused</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Time management</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Reducing the tendency to procrastinate</span></li>
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			<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When we think about routine, we tend to think about working days and some people just don’t know what to do when not working. There is plenty of evidence that working overtime reduces your productivity, makes you feel and be less healthy. It also makes you more likely to develop a whole range of diseases. Nobody should work non-stop. Workaholics or people suffering from anxiety might see time off as a real torture, as they can’t deal with it well, feeling lost and down. </span></p>
<p><strong>Nonetheless, taking breaks are beneficial as well:</strong></p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Taking breaks allows your brain and body to get the necessary recharge it needs to keep going</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Breaks can improve our mood and well-being, if using the adaptive coping strategies</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> A rested body and mind will allow you to improve your performance and be more productive as result can restore your motivation</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Fuel your creativity</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Improve your memory and learning</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The aim of this article is to help you to understand that it is ok if you feel better having a routine, but accept that it is healthy to take a break and rest as well. In this case, there are a few things you can do to help yourself during weekends or holidays.</span></p>
<p><strong>There are some suggestions:</strong></p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> You can plan, even if it is for a day, weekend or long holiday time.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Make a schedule for your daily activities: the schedule can be done weekly or daily for the following day. This way you will know how to start your day and will not feel lost. You may also find it easier to leave your bed, as you know the things you have to do.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Starting the day with a few minutes of a breathing technique will help you.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Eating is a source of energy and may help your mood, keeping you hydrated too.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Do activities that you enjoy, hobbies, new projects, DIY, painting, colouring, drawing, gardening, cooking, volunteering, writing, calligraphy, dancing, learn a language, photography, teach your pet new tricks or any other things of your interest.</span></li>
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<h1 style="text-align: center;">“Accept that it is healthy to take a break and rest as well”</h1>
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			<p><strong>The list is endless, be creative, find things you are interested in or find new things you would like to try.</strong></p>
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<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Some physical activity, at home or at a gym/club or just going for a walk.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> If you have the need to feel productive, include one or two things to the schedule that relates to subject of productivity, although remember to take it easy! It could be something such as reading an article or watching a short video about it, something that is light and is not work, but still feels useful.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-weight: 400;"> Contact your family and friends, in person/virtual or telephone.</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With those simple things to fill up your schedule it creates a new routine for your time off, you may feel more organized, still productive, less anxious and able to occupy your day in a healthy way.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">These ideas for scheduling your days off or holiday time, can also be used for students that feel anxious during wintertime festivities for example (Christmas/News years), half term break, holidays and weekends/bank holidays, if they still feel the need to study and prepare themselves for exams or assignments to do. It works very well to combine some hours of study between the other activities mentioned above.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">I have received great feedback from clients after they have been able to finish an important and extensive assignment using this new introduced routine of studies during the holiday time. Use the time off in your favour, not against you.</span></p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fernanda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2023 19:25:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Anxiety]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Live in the present. Life doesn’t have to be fantastic every day in order to be good. It is about the simple...]]></description>
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			<h1 style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">I will be happy when I&#8230;</span></h1>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Buy a house</span><br />
Buy the car of my dreams<br />
Go on holiday<br />
Get married<br />
Have kids</p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The truth is…</span></p>
<p>There will be always more, more to achieve, more to explore, more to do, more to buy, more to learn, it is endless. Although there will never be more of this single moment of your life. This is all you truly have, this is all that you may ever have, because we just don’t know, if we will have a future.</p>
<p>So, the power of happiness is based on the right here and know, right in this very present moment. You could be having the time of your life, doing the most exciting and tremendous things, or just having another evening watching Netflix with your loved ones or enjoying yourself doing nothing special really.</p>
<p>But, owing this very moment of your life can give you more contentment in life than you can imagine. Live in the present. Life doesn’t have to be fantastic every day in order to be good. It is about the simple fact of being, meaning that we are human beings, we may remind ourselves about it from time to time, stop our automatic pilot for a while, the crazy standards society puts on our shoulders that we think we must keep doing non-stop, buying, learning, achieving etc, etc.</p>
<p><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="size-medium wp-image-7646 alignleft" src="https://www.thecbtspecialist.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/live-in-the-present-article-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" srcset="https://www.thecbtspecialist.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/live-in-the-present-article-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.thecbtspecialist.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/live-in-the-present-article-800x800.jpg 800w, https://www.thecbtspecialist.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/live-in-the-present-article-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.thecbtspecialist.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/live-in-the-present-article-768x768.jpg 768w, https://www.thecbtspecialist.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/live-in-the-present-article.jpg 1024w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" />There is nothing wrong with having goals, projects, or looking forward to getting a new handbag or car, however, more than anything, we need to meet our essence of being as well.</p>
<p>I think happiness is constantly put into the perspective that it means, excitement, pleasure, joy, abundance, wealth. However happiness can also be, and I strongly believe that, happiness is peace, be at peace, when you are able to only be.<br />
The rest will be so pretty small in comparison to being, being this person you are, the unique human being, in this entire world, in this life full of surprises, good and bad ones, full of qualities and flaws as well.</p>
<p>People are mostly living waiting for the extraordinary to feel happy, when in fact the most extraordinary truly lives in the ordinary.<br />
Sorry to disappoint you, but if you live your life waiting to be content and happy then… You are faded to spend your entire life unhappy or discontent. Because the idea of this so much desired tomorrow, “this when…”, it will never stop and ‘this when’ will never arrive, because you will be waiting for it forever, until your last day.</p>
<p>It is very common that people work so hard for something and when they finally get what they have dreamed of, they can’t even celebrate it properly, because just a few minutes after getting their great achievement they are again, living for the next thing, for when they get the next step or worried how to get it, the whole process starts again.</p>
<p>Therefore, you keep thinking that your happiness is still a bit further up the hill and when you get there, to the top, you will get all the joy, then you can have fun and you will be fulfilled and happy. Although those things are actually not the rewards you might get when… those things are the fundamental elements to create a life that is worth living. No, it is not about that toxic positivity.</p>
<p>No, life is not perfect, sometimes it can be exceptionally hard on us. It is about being aware that life is finite and be realistic that you can make it worth living. You can practice living in the present and being more content, rather than living a delusional dream of what it could be or what it will be one day. It is about being realistic and still able to enjoy life, with all the odds it may have/bring towards us. So, take the power and make your magic. You deserve a happy peaceful life.</p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Fernanda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jul 2022 20:31:28 +0000</pubDate>
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			<p>Filling up your mind with beautiful things can be a very beneficial mental health exercise. It is not just pleasant, but it is healthy. Seeing a beautiful piece of art, pictures, splendid sight-seeing, or anything that feels pleasant, has a great power to influence your mood.<br />
It is very common to ones suffering from anxiety or depression to watch TV, news for example, especially during the hard pandemic times. It was a great source to create more anxiety, people would feel extremely anxious, and sadly, they would not disconnect from it. Looking for beauty can be used as a very good adaptive coping mechanism. It is simple to observe that a healthy mind usually looks for what is beautiful, while an unhealthy mind, usually looks for the opposite (ugly things, music or films).<br />
Exchanging the maladaptive mechanisms for something more helpful is essential. That is one of the things that therapy can help you with.</p>
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			<p>It is true that some types of art or pictures for example, can also cause really unpleasant feelings. But, taking responsibility for your emotions, you rationally make choices of what are better ways to keep yourself well. You can choose what to see, what to watch on TV or listen to. You can’t control the news, but you have the influence in areas that you are responsible for in your life, such as allowing how much information you obtain or what kind of information you are willing to receive, and by that, making rational decisions that will considerably influence your mental health and consecutively, your emotions, thoughts and behaviour.</p>
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			<p>When you watch an emotional film or see a masterpiece, you experience emotions and thoughts relating to it. You may behave in accordance; you could cry or smile. when what you see is powerful enough to create emotions and you are aware of that, consequently you can make better choices of what you bring to your eyes or even your ears. Beautiful music is very compelling and brings a range of emotions. Consciously choosing classical or symphonic music or any music that will elevate your soul is a good action towards your mental health. In the CBT process we explore our clients’ coping mechanisms and help them to find more options for a healthier version of coping mechanism. So, I would strongly suggest that you take few minutes of your time and reflect on it, please. What are your coping mechanisms when you are not feeling well, anxious, depressive, angry, etc?. Make a realistic list of it. You will probably find out that you usually have more maladaptive strategies rather than adaptive ones. A few examples are, commonly are drinking alcohol, binge eating, watching violence, drama or bad news, withdrawal, staying in the dark, the list of possibilities goes on.</p>
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			<p>However, if I could suggest only one simple change to your life today, I would say, use beauty in your favour. believe me, it is easy to find as it is everywhere (if you look attentively) and you can even find immense amounts of it for free everywhere. If you can, have at least one book of arts of your disposal (I would not pick contemporary art), I mean an expression of beauty and whenever you have ten or fifteen minutes between your meetings or break time, give it a look, just a quick unpretentious look and you will fill up the levels of beauty in your life. You can also look through your window or go for a short walk, looking for birds, trees, flowers, people, etc.<br />
Take a short time for pure appreciation and get used to it.<br />
In conclusion, you are responsible for choosing what is best for you and you can do it. And please remember, it is most important to make a decision on doing what is most beneficial for yourself, especially when you don’t feel like it at all.</p>
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			<p>Since first lockdown it is has been known that millions of people suddenly had a lot more time alone at home, and it is easy to get excited about something we see a lot on the internet, for example beautiful pictures and Instagram reels of very cute puppies, where it looks like the true happiness. Loads of people rushed to get a dog or cat, as a companion or as a distraction. The thing is that now, thousands of pets have been dumped, resold or are back to shelters. Pets with behavioural issues and frustrated owners. Because somehow, those people weren’t really prepared for that.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, most people probably decided to get a puppy based on the internet influence and pandemic lockdown. Which is not realistic or trustworthy enough to make an important decision such as that. We can’t underestimate the responsibility of getting a pet. It involves great effort, time, money, a physical and emotional capacity as well. Puppies are very cute, sure! But they are much more than the cute pictures you can see. They will require attention; they are beings and so they have their needs as well. Being able and committed to attend their needs is a great part of the show. It is not only about your own needs anymore.</p>
<p>Whereas many people just acted impulsively and rushed to get a pet, on the other hand, there were also those wishing to get a pet but felt really anxious and not able to go for it, even when they really wanted to have a pet, have the space, the finance and life is fine, they still hesitated, because there was something triggering them about getting a puppy.</p>
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			<p>-Behavioural concerns: Every pet can have a different “character”. Even two dogs from the same breeder will be different, one may be quieter while the other may be quite playful or bark a lot. When talking about puppies that is something to truly consider as they may give you extra work and training needs, such as chewing things and marking their territory.</p>
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			<h2>There are pros and cons that should be carefully considered such as:</h2>
<p>-Financially: how much the pet will cost monthly, such as dog grooming, food, health insurance, medicines, needing a dog walker, pet sitter etc.</p>
<p>-Time wise: consider if you are able to give your dog daily walks, they might need several walks a day, can you be available to feed the pet at certain times, keep to their routine, to spend a good amount of quality time with your pet, play, park, training, etc. You may need to make time for vet appointments and make sure you plan your holidays considering the pets’ safety or where/whom to leave the pet while you are away.</p>
<p>-Be aware that dogs/cats/pets are not robots: they may need special care sometimes, they may fall ill, may need you to clean up sickness and house training as well, you will need to dedicate yourself to it. Keeping the environment clean and safe for you, your pet and your family.</p>
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			<p>-Dog’s owner: of course, the important point here is to consider the potential pet owner’s ability to have a pet. I mean physically and emotionally, to deal with all the things mentioned above about what does it mean to own a pet.</p>
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			<p>As a therapist and a dog lover myself, knowing that there are quite a few anxieties related to this subject, I would suggest any client with a similar issue to first use a simple and efficient exercise called “Cost Benefit Analysis” to make a decision based on facts and to explore their real will to go for it. The Cost Benefit Analysis is commonly used by business people in order to evaluate a new business prospect. It will also help an individual evaluating the aspects of getting a pet, having a think through, whether it is only you or there are others involved, comparing the advantages and disadvantages of everything it might take both in the short and long term. Then, if still considering getting a pet is a certain decision, but you are still anxious about it, I would suggest exploring what is it triggering your anxiety the most.</p>
<p>Despite all the research about how pets can help individuals with anxiety, depression and other mental health issues, it is essential to think about it properly. People dealing with anxiety and depression, who are looking to have a pet, should also consider whether it would be more beneficial for rather than aggravating their issues, as this could happen, if they keep to the demands of being a perfect dog/cat owner or that it must never get ill as examples. Once one is determined to get a pet, it would ideally come with the decision to better cope with the uncertainties of it as well, which is directly related to the demands of control, that people with anxiety for example usually have.</p>
<p>For some people, with a first pet, It could be the uncertainty of doing it well and being able to take care of a pet for example. In this case, I would say that exposure would help with increasing confidence.</p>
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			<h2>Some forms of dealing with exposure in a situation like that could be the following:</h2>
<p>-Go for walks, spend time in the park near to your place, observe dogs and their owners.</p>
<p>-Make a contact, talk to a dog owner, ask for tips, ask about their dog’s behaviour, pet the dog, play with the dog if possible.</p>
<p>– If you have a friend with dogs/pets, go visit them, see the environment, notice how they deal with their pets at home. Talk to your friends about your desire to get a pet.</p>
<p>-Get information, read a lot about the dog/cat breed you are wanting to get, the more you know in advance about the pet and how to take care of it, the better.</p>
<p>-You can offer to have your friends’ pet when they go on holiday, if you don’t have friends with pets, there are apps such as Borrow my Dog, this way you will have a very good time with a pet and fully immerse yourself in that experience as to how it would be to have a pet yourself.</p>
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			<h2>After dealing with your possible demands for certainty such as:</h2>
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“I must be a perfect dog owner and know what I am doing” or<br />
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			<h2>Creating a more healthy version, following the preferences, rather than the demands:</h2>
<p>“I will give my best to take care appropriately of my pet, I understand I will learn more and more during the process”<br />
“I strongly prefer that my pet never gets ill, but I will deal/cope with it if it happens”</p>
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			<p>Using the opportunities to experience the exposure steps suggested above is a great way to considerably diminish the anxiety of having a pet. If you still want to have one, you really like pets and are happy to commit to the pet and keep looking after your anxiety issues, it is likely that you will be better prepared to go for it and also take care of your mental health.</p>

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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Jan 2022 20:55:57 +0000</pubDate>
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			<p>Winter can be synonymous with delightful things for so many people, hot chocolate, snuggle evenings, comfy pyjamas, warm cups of tea, mulled wine, beautiful frosty morning walks, with their dogs or solo. Some people will just find reasons to absolutely love it and see beauty despite the cold and laziness, some may feel special on Monday mornings and on that wet and cold Wednesday afternoon. Those people will have been looking forward to that since autumn, the fall and its colourful changes in nature and new home decor, how to promote all the cosiness at home and thinking ahead about the most wonderful time of the year, Christmas season, with their loved ones, parties, good food and drinks. However, not everyone feels this way.</p>
<p>Unfortunately for some, the winter tale is quite different. As the weather changes and especially when it starts to get darker much earlier, those people feel sad. But The SAD I am talking about is SAD- Seasonal Affective Disorder. They will not see a sparkly winter, but some winter blues. It is a type of depression that’s related to changes in seasons, it begins and ends about the same time every year and is likely to go away during the sunnier days of spring and summer.</p>
<p>Your symptoms start in the fall and continue into the winter months. Usually, you will feel your energy drained and moody. Main Symptoms can also be, a loss of pleasure or interest in everyday activities, irritability, anger, anxiety, frustration, sense of loss, feelings of despair, guilt and worthlessness, feeling lethargic (lacking in energy) and sleepy during the day. Other effects also could be that you may also feel tired all the time or have trouble sleeping at night. Trouble having sex, or lack of interest in it. Depression can cause headaches, chronic body aches, and pain that may not respond to medication.</p>
<p>It is less common, but nonetheless, SAD can cause depression in the warmer times of the year as well. on the contrary, people with the opposite pattern have symptoms that begin in spring or summer. In either case, symptoms may start mild and become more severe as the season progresses.</p>
<p>Some symptoms are very distinguished from Fall/Winter SAD and Spring/Summer SAD.</p>
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			<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Symptoms specific to winter-onset SAD, sometimes called winter depression, may include:</span></p>
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			<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Symptoms specific to summer-onset seasonal affective disorder, sometimes called summer depression, may include:</span></p>
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<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Trouble sleeping (insomnia)</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Poor appetite</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Weight loss</span></li>
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<p>SAD is four times more common in women than in men. Although some children and teenagers get SAD, it usually doesn’t start in people younger than the age of 20. Your chance of getting SAD reduces as you get older. SAD is also more common the farther north you go, for obvious reasons.</p>
<p>There is no clear cause of SAD. Reduced levels of sunlight in fall and winter and shorter days are thought to be linked to a chemical change in the brain and may be part of the cause of Seasonal Affective Disorder. The decrease in serotonin, a brain chemical (neurotransmitter) that affects mood, might play a role in SAD.<br />
This diminution in sunlight may disrupt your body’s internal clock and lead to feelings of depression. Melatonin levels are also affected, the change in season can disrupt the balance of the body’s level of melatonin, which plays a role in sleep patterns and mood, also may be linked to SAD.</p>
<p>There are some risk factors to consider.</p>
<p><strong>-Family history.</strong> People with SAD may be more likely to have blood relatives with SAD or another form of depression.</p>
<p><strong>-Having major depression or bipolar disorder.</strong> Symptoms of depression may worsen seasonally if you have one of these conditions.</p>
<p><strong>-Living far from the equator.</strong> SAD appears to be more common among people who live far north or south of the equator. This may be due to decreased sunlight during the winter and longer days during the summer months.</p>
<p>As with other types of depression, SAD can get worse and lead to problems if it’s not treated. these problems include; social withdrawal, school or work problems, substance abuse, other mental health disorders such as anxiety or eating disorders and suicidal thoughts or behaviour.</p>
<p>A few treatments are available for seasonal affective disorder (SAD), including cognitive behavioural therapy, light therapy (phototherapy), medications and antidepressants depending on the severity of the case.<br />
The National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) recommendations is that SAD should be treated as other types of depression. Treatment includes the above options, with talking treatments such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) recognised as a highly and clinically proven effective treatment, combined with medication, your doctor’s prescription, whether necessary.</p>
<p>Light therapy is also a popular treatment for SAD, although NICE says it’s not clear whether it’s effective. Also referred to as heliotherapy— It consists either of exposure to daylight or AN equivalent form of light as a treatment for seasonal affective disorder. Although it is not recognised as a proper treatment, I think it is worth a try. I would recommend clients to get a light therapy lamp and use it complimentary to therapy. There are many lamps and lightboxes marketed as SAD or light therapy lamps on the market.</p>
<p>There are other things you can consider and try by yourself that are simple and that may improve your symptoms.</p>
<p>-Try to get as much natural sunlight as possible – even a brief lunchtime walk can be beneficial, spending time outdoors, even on cloudy days.<br />
-Make your work and home environments as light and airy as possible<br />
-Sit near windows when you’re indoors<br />
-Take plenty of regular exercise, particularly outdoors and in daylight<br />
-Eat a healthy, balanced diet if possible, avoid stressful situations and take steps to manage stress.<br />
-It can also be helpful to talk to your family and friends about SAD, so they understand how your mood changes during the winter. This can help them to support you more effectively.<br />
-Have your vitamins checked and supplemented if needed, studies have shown a link between vitamin D deficiency and depression. vitamin D might play an important role in regulating mood.<br />
-Planning a mid-winter break, with family, friends or by yourself, a vacation to a sunny climate.</p>
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